June Khuzwayo Smed 11
Feelings follow behaviour
The above topic is so true. Ofcourse it is normally the feelings first and then the behaviour. In a case of loving someone. First you feel within you that you are in love with someone, once those feelings have been felt and developed, they then move to the next level, whereby your behaviour changes, perhaps you start looking at the person that you are in love with in a different manner.
I normally describe feelings as a mystery, because sometimes you find that you cannot control your feelings and sometimes you have no geniun reason as to why you feel the way you feel towards certain things. As human we react differently its always good to control your feelings especially in critical situations, because the way you might be feeling at that moment it does not mean that the whole world is standing still and waiting for your reaction. Control your feelings if you have a worse situation so that everyone around you will understand and perhaps sympatise with you. Its no use shouting at everyone around you just because things are not going your way or you are having a bad day.
Feelings are controllable as well as behaviour, don't do or say something that you might regret tomorrow.
